Word from the Head – 23 May 2025
Dear Parents,
Half term is here already (or possibly at last, depending on how the last few weeks have felt for you!). It’s always a welcome break from the usual routine, but at this time of year it’s also an important time for our pupils who are preparing for their forthcoming end of year exams. As a result the week can feel like a juggling act, both for them and for parents: rest versus revision, encouragement versus pressure, motivation versus overwhelm.
If you’re finding it hard to strike the right balance at home, you’re not alone. Certainly I had a moment earlier in the week when I looked at my ever-growing list of big thinking and writing jobs which I’ve carefully put on one side ‘to do in half term’ and realised that I have also booked two days out and three days away with friends next week: quite when am I expecting to do all this work?!
The good news? There are ways to support your child through a week of revision (or to find time to get some big work items ticked off the list) without letting stress take over your household. With the kind assistance of Chat GPT, who I am allowing to help me take the strain this week, here are a few practical (and kind) tips to help keep motivation going this half term.
Ensure they (and you) have a realistic plan. Sit down with your child and help them build a revision timetable that includes both focused study and real breaks. A clear plan reduces anxiety and helps your child feel more in control. They’ve had plenty of advice on this from Mr Boardman so they should already have one – but beware: if creating the revision timetable (and colour coding it, and filling it in, and sticking it up) takes more than half an hour, your child may just be procrastinating!
On that note, celebrate effort, not just results. Praise your child for sticking to their revision plan, asking questions or tackling a tough topic. Small wins build confidence – and confidence fuels motivation. We know that revising what pupils already know feels good, but adds little to their outcomes. Do help them to tackle the amber and red topics on the revision checklist too.
Keep it balanced. Encourage short, effective study sessions with time for relaxation, fresh air and sleep. Rest is not quitting or slacking – it’s part of the process. Even 15 minutes of quiet can reset a whole day, for both you and your child.
Chat GPT offered me this next one and it’s a tough one: be a support, not a supervisor. My own experience of end of year exams, GCSEs and A levels gave me plenty of time to practice this skill, even if you’d think that as a teacher it might come naturally (you can ask my son if I got any better at it!). Check in gently, offer snacks or encouragement, and be a calm presence. If things get tense, step back and revisit the conversation later. Sometimes, what a child needs most is simply to know you’re on their side.
Stepping aside is hard when you can see that they might not be working effectively or anxieties about their outcomes take over: it’s easy for frustration or fear to creep in. If you can, try to manage the mood and normalise these feelings – many students (and parents!) feel anxious during revision. Share your own stories of working through tough situations, and remind them: it’s okay to struggle, as long as they keep going.
And that helps, because you’re keeping the bigger picture in mind. I hope you (and your child) remember my trainers assembly from the start of the year. Even during these end of year exams, pupils should be in their ASICS not their Nikes. We’re still at the diagnostic stage so try to remind yourself, and your child, why the journey matters and how every step, even the hard ones, contributes to the eventual outcome.
And finally, please don’t forget to rest, too. This isn’t just a working holiday for our pupils. It’s a time for families to reconnect, recharge and enjoy each other’s company. We deliberately put the exams a week after we return from half term so that there is space for that: exams are important, but your child’s wellbeing (and yours) matters just as much. If, on our return, you have any concerns about your child’s progress, mindset or study habits, please don’t hesitate to contact their form tutor or Head of Year. We’re here to help, and together we can ensure every pupil feels ready and supported for exam week when it comes.
For now I wish you all a calm, productive and restful half term,
Mrs Lindsey Hughes
Headmistress